/ CURRICULUM — 3-DAY CRUCIBLE · COUPLES
THE U.D.E. — THE ULTIMATE DATING EXPERIENCE
A 3-day intensive built around one skill most couples never master: communication. Learn to hear, be heard, and fight for each other — not against each other.
/ THE OVERVIEW
WHAT THISACTUALLY IS.
The U.D.E. — The Ultimate Dating Experience — is 72 hours designed to rebuild the way you and your partner talk, listen, disagree and repair.
You'll work through live communication labs, guided conflict drills and real-time coaching alongside other couples who refuse to keep running the same script.
You leave with a shared language, a repair framework, and a written communication doctrine for your marriage.
/ THE PROGRESSION
HOW IT UNFOLDS.
DAY 1 · HEAR
Deep listening, unpacking triggers, identifying the patterns you've been stuck in.
DAY 2 · SPEAK
Honest speech, boundary reps, live conflict drills with coaching on the floor.
DAY 3 · REPAIR
Repair framework, forgiveness reps, drafting and signing your couple's doctrine.
/ THE INVESTMENT
PRICE & WHAT'SINCLUDED.
3 days · Married or engaged couples
Secure your seat · deposit or pay in full
/ WHAT'S INCLUDED
Every seat comes with:
- ✦3-part programming: Day 1 · Day 2 · Day 3
- ✦In-person intensive — live coaching, communication labs, guided conflict drills
- ✦Direct coaching and accountability from UCSM instructors
- ✦Access to the private UCSM cohort community
- ✦Weekly assignments, journaling prompts and field work
- ✦Certificate of completion at graduation
/ WHAT YOU LEAVE WITH
OUTCOMES.
- ✦A shared communication framework you both operate by
- ✦Live reps through conflict, repair and hard conversations
- ✦A written couple's doctrine drafted together by day three
- ✦Direct coaching from UCSM instructors throughout
/ TO ENLIST
REQUIREMENTS.
- →Both partners committed to attending all three days
- →Willingness to be coached, corrected and stretched
- →A marriage or engagement you're ready to fight for
/ ENLIST
HOLD THE LINE.TAKE THE SEAT.
Kicks off Fri, Nov 6, 2026. Enrollment closes Fri, Oct 30, 2026. Seats are capped.
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